The Kopi Date Blog
The most human newsletter.
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Life-Changing Hacks to be a Dazzling Conversationalist
How do great conversationalists do it? How do they know how to connect with people and make them feel good? Here we have 10 foolproof ways you can become a dazzling conversationalist! a dazzling conversationali!
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10 Conversation Starters That Are Perfect For Your Kopi Date
Imagine this. You’re sitting down on your first date. You’ve got sweaty palms and sweat running down your back.
You’re looking at your date then your mind goes completely blank.
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Top 10 Best Free and Unique First Date Ideas in Singapore 2024
Interesting budget-friendly first-date ideas in Singapore.
Living in Singapore often comes with the misconception that everything fun comes with a hefty price tag.But guess what? When it comes to dating in 2024, there's no need to empty your wallet to make a heart-fluttering impression. Dive into these local-approved date ideas that are as delightful as they are wallet-friendly. .
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10 Insights & Learnings from“The Juicy Relationship Starter Kit" Podcast by Crystal Lim-Lange
Dive deep into the digital dating dynamics with our breakdown of the enlightening podcast between Crystal Lim-Lange and Dr. Greg Lim-Lange in 'The Juicy Relationship Starter Kit.' Explore the interplay of technology and genuine connections, the importance of personal growth in relationships, strategies to navigate dating challenges, and the undeniable power of vulnerability. Unearth the secrets of modern love and how Kopi Date champions these insights for truly meaningful connections. …
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Top 10 best dating apps & websites to find love in Singapore 2024
Best dating apps and websites in Singapore that won’t waste your time – (2024)
If you’re lost looking for love in Singapore, you’re not alone. In such a fast-paced city, expecting to find love at work, in a bar, or just randomly in the streets doesn’t cut it. The best dating apps can help you find a spring fling or something more meaningful — it all depends on what you're looking for in terms of companionship and which apps you use. And even if you're not out for romance, some dating apps have expanded their focus to simply connecting you to people who share your interests. …
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10 Tips for Deeper Conversations with Your Date (First Dates)
Looking to build a stronger connection on your first date? Check out these 10 tips for deeper conversations that go beyond small talk. Learn how to ask the right questions, practice active listening, and create meaningful dialogue that leaves a lasting impression. Perfect for singles seeking authentic connections on their first dates! ...
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How to Practice Empathy on a First Date
Being able to feel another's emotions, relate to them, and understand what they're going through is our ability as people to empathise. It's what makes us human and allows us to see that we're not that different from one another despite how we may look, talk or act.…
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How Understanding Your Inner Child Can Help Your Adult Relationships
Relationships can be challenging to navigate, especially as we grow into adulthood. We move from friendships and family ties into love and dating, which can be daunting, and unfortunately, not always positive.
We may find ourselves falling into the same troubling patterns of behaviour in our relationships, but do we understand why? Here’s how understanding our attachment styles can help. … -
10 Top Hipster Cafes for a First Date in Singapore
Explore the trendiest cafes in Singapore, handpicked for an unforgettable first date experience. From rustic interiors to artisanal brews, discover the top 10 hipster hotspots that set the perfect backdrop for a memorable rendezvous. Don't miss out on this curated list of cafes, designed to add a touch of urban charm to your romantic outing. ..
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A Comprehensive Guide to Singapore’s Top Dating App & Websites: Pricing, Features, and More (2024)
Explore the comprehensive 2024 guide to dating app costs and pricing in Singapore. We analysed platforms such as Tinder, Bumble, Kopi Date, and other matchmaking agencies. Understand their features, benefits, and membership plans to make an informed choice for your dating journey. …
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Kopi Date vs. Dating Apps & Matchmaking Agencies
What do people get wrong about Kopi Date?
Kopi Date is not a dating app; neither is it a matchmaking service. We’re Singapore’s people-connectors, curating the most thoughtful offline dates for singles.
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How To Allow Yourself To Be Vulnerable
Ever feel like there’s something in your way when you’re trying to be vulnerable? You can’t seem to grasp the concept or feel silly opening up?
In this article, we’ll prove to you that being vulnerable is powerful and that it’s a lot easier than you think with 4 simple steps.
But before we get into how to allow yourself to be more vulnerable and open, you’re maybe wondering…..
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The Science Behind Attraction: Why We Like Who We Like
Attraction – it's an age-old phenomenon that has bewildered humans for centuries. Is it the curve of a smile, the sparkle of an eye, or something deeper? While poets and romantics have penned countless lines on the mysteries of affection, science has its own perspective on why we are drawn to certain individuals. Unraveling this mystery requires a deep dive into the realms of biology, sociology, and psychology. Let's explore the captivating science behind attraction. …
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Hello, Toxic Relationships My Old Friend
Picture this: you’re at dinner with your friends, glass of wine in hand, lamenting about how your most recent partner ended up being just like all the ones that came before. “Why can’t I find someone actually right for me?”, you ask. Sound familiar?
Read on to find out why you can’t shake the cycle of toxic relationships, and what you can do differently on your Kopi Date to change this. … -
Growth vs Destiny Belief: How having the right mindset might change your destiny forever…
If you listen to any number of love songs, dating “experts,” or dive headfirst into a romance novel, you’re prone to believe that finding that special someone — your soulmate — is in your destiny.
But how can you know whether you’ve met “the one”? Will the birds begin to sing? Will you be able to view fireworks or a shooting star?
And for those who have yet to find “the one,” should you keep looking, or is it a fruitless endeavor? …
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How Our Body Image Affects Our Dating Life
First dates are always a complicated experience. The anticipation of a newfound connection mixes in with the excitement of meeting someone new, all backlit by this nervous thought: “What do they think of me?” .
With the rising ubiquity of online dating apps, more and more first dates are set up without any prior knowledge of the other person or what they’re like in real life. How do you know what they really look like? What if they don’t like what you look like- or even worse, think of you as a catfish? … -
The Kopi Date Thesis
The Kopi Date Thesis addresses modern dating challenges like superficial connections, short-term thinking, and lack of introspection. Kopi Date offers curated social experiences that encourage self-discovery, growth, and relationship skills, helping singles build healthy, long-term connections. Our mission is to create a community focused on meaningful relationships, moving beyond casual dating apps. Join us in empowering singles and couples through authentic experiences and personal growth. -
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The Foundations of Any Successful Relationship
What is the first thing that pops into your mind when you hear the phrase “successful relationship?” Do you think of a couple who have grown together? Or do you think of a pair of friends who have stood by one another?
Whenever we think of a successful relationship our minds often go to an image of what looks like one but we never think about what really goes into one. So what are these foundations that make up any relationship? …
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5 Ways to Greater Self-Acceptance
Insecure people are made, not born. In our daily lives, there is always an invisible pressure for us to fit into a boxed narrative of being perfect.
Overcoming insecurity is a big challenge and the first step to coping with painful emotions is through self-acceptance, where you will eventually find yourself embracing your flaws.
Want to learn more about self-acceptance? …
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Why Modern Dating in Singapore Sets You Up for Failure
Discover why modern dating in Singapore poses unique challenges in the digital age. From the impact of the Loneliness Economy to the Attention Economy, discover why finding love in the digital age isn't always straightforward. Learn about swipe culture, choice paradox, and patience for thriving relationships in a fast-paced world. .
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Kopi Date Review: Field Notes: 1st Kopi Date (Review by Cheyenne Philips)
A non-sponsored Kopi Date review. Her opinions are her original views and thoughts.
Cheyenne Phillips dives into a detailed recount of her personal Kopi Date journey. From engaging activities in a grocery store setting to insightful post-date reflections, this blog post provides an in-depth look at what to expect, tips to make the most of it, and the importance of organic conversations. …
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A Brief History of Dating
Dating has changed lots over the past few years. But it’s hard to imagine that just a few years ago, the dating habits that we know today were completely different back then.
So join us as we look back on how dating has evolved and maybe we’ll be able to pick up on some trends that are still present in today’s current dating culture. …
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What does long-term fulfilling relationship mean?
Discover the essence of a long-term fulfilling relationship, built on respect, shared values, and emotional intimacy. At Kopi Date, we focus on mindful dating, personal growth, and authentic connections. Our curated experiences foster introspection and emotional alignment, empowering individuals to form meaningful, lasting connections based on trust and personal development. ..
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Avoiding the Boredom Trap (Self-Assessing Your Conversational Engagement)
To avoid boring others, it is important to pay attention to the nonverbal cues of the person we are speaking with and to have a strong sense of self-worth. By developing a more benevolent understanding of what it means to be occasionally boring, we can improve our communication with others and strengthen our relationships. X
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What is a Situationship? & How to Spot One
Have you ever been in one of those “I’m not really sure what we’re doing, I think we might be together but maybe we’re not” dating scenarios? If you have, then it’s likely you’ve been in a situationship. Situationships can be confusing and bring up a lot of questions, like: what is a situationship? How can I tell if I’m in one? What should I do about it? Well, we’ve got answers. In this article, we share everything you need to know about situationships. x
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Best Dating App Tips: Conversations Starters & Opening Lines For Online Dating Apps: Best Ways To Start A Conversation
Unlock the secret to starting captivating conversations on dating apps like Bumble and Tinder. Discover expert tips on personalised opening lines, the power of humour, and asking the right questions. Dive into our guide to enhance your online dating experience in Singapore. …
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An Honest Kopi Date Overview Review by Cheyenne Philips
Cheyenne Philips shares an in-depth, unpaid review of Kopi Date – a unique dating service in Singapore. Explore the pros, cons, and her personal growth journey with this conversation-centric dating platform. Dive deep into the concept of meeting outside one's social circle, embracing novelty, and learning about oneself and others. This candid review offers insights into the Singaporean dating scene and questions the current dating dynamics. …
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From Ghosting to Benching: Modern Dating Terms Decoded
In the intricate world of modern dating, a new vernacular has emerged. Whether you’re swiping left or right on dating apps in Singapore or engaging in old-school dating, it's crucial to familiarise yourself with the latest lingo. Why? It helps navigate the often confusing terrain of relationships today. This glossary-style guide offers a comprehensive breakdown of the trendiest dating terms, ensuring you’re always in the loop. …
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4 Ways to Respectfully Turn Down a Date When You're Not Interested
Saying no to a date can be challenging, but by being honest, direct, and gracious, you can effectively and politely decline the invitation while still being considerate of the other person's feelings. Read on to find out more! X
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Kylene's Kopi Date Review: First Dates Over Coffee
Kylene shares a non-sponsored review of her experience with Singapore-based dating service, Kopi Date. Dive into her candid recount of three first dates, learn about the onboarding process, pricing, and unique features. Discover how Kopi Date focuses on fostering genuine conversations and offers personalised feedback. If you're curious about first dates over coffee, this comprehensive review offers an insightful look into one of Singapore's fast-growing dating platforms. …
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Sustainable Dating: How To Build A Relationship That Lasts
Sustainable dating for singles isn't just about finding the right partner but ensuring you're the right partner too. The journey towards a lasting relationship begins long before the first ‘hello.' By fostering trust, understanding your love language, maintaining balance in personal life, participating in trust-building activities, and emphasising personal growth, singles can lay a robust foundation for a future relationship that's not just sustainable, but thriving. …
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Kopi Date Review: I Went Out With 3 Strangers Through Kopi Date
In this review, a 32-year-old Singaporean woman reviews Kopi Date, a platform for personal growth and meaningful connections. Her story underscores the value of intentional dating and meeting diverse individuals. …
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The Problem with Dating Apps in Singapore 2024
Discover the challenges of modern dating apps in Singapore in 2024. From short-term thinking to self-victimisation, excessive judgement, and the normalisation of disrespect, apps like Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid, Coffee Meets Bagel (CMB), and Hinge may contribute to these issues. Learn how to navigate these problems and foster healthier, more intentional connections for a meaningful dating journey.
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The Hidden Benefits of Offline Dating
Discover the hidden benefits of offline dating and how it can help you form deeper, more meaningful connections. Learn how face-to-face interactions foster authenticity, emotional presence, and lasting memories, making offline dating a refreshing alternative to the swipe culture of online apps. Perfect for singles seeking real, long-term relationships. ...
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Best Sites To Meet People Organically In Singapore 2024
Looking to meet people organically in Singapore? Discover the best platforms and spaces for face-to-face connections beyond dating apps. Explore local events on Eventbrite, join interest-based communities on Meetup.com, or enjoy a curated coffee date through Kopi Date for a more personal touch. Whether you’re into art, fitness, or casual conversations over coffee, these options will help you form meaningful connections. Visit Time Out Singapore for hidden city gems and uncover exciting opportunities to expand your social circle. ..
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Dating as an INFP: Personality Type and Compatibility
Discover the unique dating journey of INFP singles and how their personality traits shape their relationships. This guide explores dating challenges for INFPs, offering valuable tips for singles seeking meaningful connections. Learn how INFPs, with their emotional depth, empathy, and creativity, can navigate the dating world and find compatible partners. Explore INFP compatibility with other MBTI types like INFJ, ENFP, and more. ..
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How Your Attachment Style Shapes Your Dating Life
Discover how your attachment style shapes your dating life and relationships. Learn about secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant attachment styles, and how they impact singles in Singapore. Understand your dating patterns to foster healthier, more meaningful connections and build lasting relationships. .....
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2024: Offline vs. Online Dating in Singapore: 5 Reasons to Ditch the Apps and Meet In-Person
Explore the benefits of offline dating in Singapore compared to online apps. Discover how face-to-face interactions create genuine first impressions, foster deeper connections, and reduce digital burnout. Learn why Kopi Date's curated offline experiences offer a more authentic way to build lasting relationships in a vibrant, real-world setting. ...