Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life. At Kopi Date, we believe in the importance of cultivating resilient relationships, starting with the dating process.

Our focus on personal growth and fostering meaningful connections ensures that our members have the tools and resources they need to create healthy relationships.

Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth and introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.

Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. If you're someone who values open-mindedness, personal growth, and building genuine connections, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date.

We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.

Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.

So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.

Learn more about Who is Kopi Date For?

It’s simple!

1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.

2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.

3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.

4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!

5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕

A ‘long-term fulfilling relationship’ is one that nurtures deep emotional, intellectual, and personal satisfaction over time. It thrives on mutual respect, trust, and shared values, where both partners grow together and support each other’s personal development. In a healthy relationship like this, both individuals feel truly seen and appreciated, finding comfort, security, and joy in their connection. It goes beyond fleeting attraction, focusing on emotional compatibility, honest communication, and the strength to navigate life’s ups and downs together.

At Kopi Date, we believe that a fulfilling relationship begins with intentional dating shaped by introspection and personal growth. Through thoughtfully curated date experiences, we empower singles to form genuine, meaningful connections right from the start. This lays the groundwork for relationships that are not only emotionally enriching but also sustainable—ones where both partners flourish together. Learn more.

We encourage singles of all ages to sign up! However, as we’d like all of our members to have quality experiences, we would only enrol members who will have the best experience at Kopi Date!

Nope, it’s an anonymous date. Hold onto your excitement for the date itself! You will get more than enough time to talk to your date then. 😉

Your date location is a surprise and will be revealed 2-3 days before your date through email. Kopi Dates are held at our partner venues, each with their own unique concept. These locations have been carefully curated to provide the best first date experiences.

Yes! Our experience e-giftcards come with instant or scheduled delivery to the recipient on the day of your choosing to pick from, it has never been easier to find the perfect gift!

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The Kopi Date Experience is currently available in:
🇸🇬 Singapore
🇦🇺 Sydney, Australia
🇮🇩 Jakarta, Indonesia (Coming soon!)

We get that people like to try before they buy, but we believe that offering free trials or one-time experiences would compromise the quality of our members' experience. Not everyone would be as invested if they didn't have any skin in the game.

If you're still on the fence about Kopi Date, you can check out Our Manifesto, see what our current members are saying, or hit up some friends who have tried it out. Or, you can always shoot us a message with any questions – we're here to help!

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Our goal is to create the optimal environment for members to connect through authentic conversation. With that in mind, we curate dates based on conversational potential, personality and background.

At Kopi Date, our objective is to get our members to embark on a long-term, fulfilling relationship.

Learn more about Our Kopi Date Philosophy around Relationships, which involves our curation goals as well.

At Kopi Date, we encourage our community to embark on their dates with an open mind and a great setting to have wonderful conversations. Tossing your checklist can help you open up to meeting people with characteristics that you might surprisingly vibe with - and qualities that can inspire long-term relationships such as loyalty, kindness, emotional stability, good communication and a growth mindset!

Kopi Date encourages members to approach each date with an open mind. After all, connections often develop in places we don’t expect.

Having said that, we do take into account your comments during the ‘Concluding-the-Date Review' to create a more personalised experience (it’ll be a great place to let us know on how you can have better experiences). However, please reach out to us if you have any absolute limits!

This is unavailable at the moment but it is in the pipelines and Kopi Artisans will see what we can do to assist here.

It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!

Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (30% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).

✔️ Curation can be paused at any time (travelling/ getting to know past dates)

✔️ No expiry on date credits

✔️ Credits are transferable to friends

✔️ Growth Series and Personalised Advice

6 Credit (18% off) and 3 Credit Memberships are available without perks.

Membership will renew when the cycle has ended. A reminder email will be sent to you 5 days prior to the renewal date.

Once you’re successfully enrolled, hop on to the most humanised onboarding ever:

1. Add a card to reserve an onboarding slot. You will not be charged until you’re fully onboarded.

2. Enjoy The Kopi Date Brew onboarding.

3. You will be enrolled to the selected membership and billed to your added card during the session.

4. All membership plans are billed upfront. (No hidden fees)

This call is mandatory and helps us curate awesome dates! Once the membership has been processed, we are unable to downgrade the plan or refund for any unused credits.

Many individuals expense this as part of wellness allowance.

For more details, reach out to us at hello@kopidate.com after successfull enrolment.

Every Kopi Date Experience is thoughtfully-curated; hang in there for a week or so as we might just be finalising your date. Email us at hello@kopidate.com and we’ll get you sorted as soon as possible.

Unfortunately, your payment will be forfeited as operational costs has been incurred in planning for the date. Please inform the team in advance if you are no longer eligible for upcoming Kopi Dates. No shows will result in a $90 penalty to ensure a positive experience for all members.

Enjoy an 8% discount on your first Kopi Date credit when you and a friend both sign up and subscribe to a membership plan. Simply include your friend’s full name, and referral code during sign up.

This offer is exclusively for new members only. T&Cs apply.

Not to worry, simply drop us an email at hello@kopidate.com and the team will get to you shortly.

The most important things to keep in mind on date-day are our Kopi Date Values: Zero Expectations, Open-Mindedness, and Mutual Authenticity. Besides that, show up presentable and ready to connect with someone new!

If you noticed that you’re unable to attend the date prior to the date due to emergency reasons, please let us know ASAP via email hello@kopidate.com, or contact us +65 96685098 on WhatsApp.

Note: For last minute (<48 hours) rescheduling/ cancellations, 1 additional date credit will be incurred (billed to your account), as all arrangements have been finalized and partner logistics have been confirmed and settled. We seek your understanding as we create the best experience for our community members.

Punctuality is key! If you’re more than 30 minutes late and your date reports it, we’ll have to mark it as a no-show, resulting in a S$90 no-show fee. Aim to arrive at least 5 minutes early to set a positive first impression. This policy helps us build an accountable community and ensures the best experience for all our members.

Your safety is of utmost priority at Kopi Date. If you feel unsafe at any point in the date, please inform us directly through WhatsApp so we can guide you accordingly. For emergency cases, please dial 999 and inform the relevant authorities.

Re-scheduling of dates can be done on our portal through a rescheduling ticket 🎟️ (marginal cost). Do help to update your availability to avoid it 😉 Seek your understanding as we aim to create a fair and accountable experience to the members in our Kopi Date community, ensuring that overall, everyone has an enjoyable time with us!

Do see the following questions for more details.

If you still have any enquiries, do not hesitate to reach out to us at hello@kopidate.com.

We have taken into your account your indicated availability on both you and your date’s profile. As such, we seek your understanding to adhere to the proposed timings as we’ll have to be accountable to both parties and respect their time.

Do still reach out to us so that we are aware of the next steps to take, and can facilitate re-scheduling. We regret to inform you the charges for that particular month’s curation might (on a case-by-case basis) be forfeited and new charges will be incurred on your rescheduled date, unless stated otherwise.

Please inform us at least 3 days in advance if you’re unable to attend your date so that we can facilitate rescheduling and notify your date about the change in plans.

We regret to inform you that if you miss the 3-day notice period, the charges for that month’s curation will be forfeited as full operational costs have already been incurred.

Additionally, an extra credit will be billed to you for rescheduling or cancellation. If you are unable to attend, please let us know so we can inform your date that it has been cancelled.

No worries, we understand your situation! Though, we’ll still have to be accountable to your date on a sudden change of plans. As such, your date credit will not be refunded. Do also drop an email to: hello@kopidate.com so that we can assist you in the pausing of your subscription plan, and let us know whenever you will like to proceed again (-:

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Aw, thanks! We're always innovating on the creating the best experience for our community. Our aim is to take dating offline by organising dates at great venues. We get you more customers, right when you need them most. Full details here.

Shoot us an email at partnership@kopidate.com —this could be the start of something magical.

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