If you're curious about what differentiates Kopi Date from other companies and you've landed on this page seeking clarity, you're in for a treat. However, a brief summary won't do it justice. That's why we've dedicated a whole website to it. Good thing it's a captivating one.
Dive in when you're ready. (Just a nudge, take your time and begin at your own pace.)
1 A LETTER TO SINGLES
2 OUR MISSION
3 HOW WE 🪄CURATE DATES
4 OUR PROMISE 🗝️ TO YOU
5 SECOND DATES & BEYOND
6 WELCOME TO THE ☕ POST-SWIPING GENERATION
A LETTER TO SINGLES
Hi everyone,
I’m Zhiqun, Co-founder here at Kopi Date.
Modern dating gets a bad rap, but it shouldn’t. Meeting new people should be beautiful.
It feels special to see someone for the first time. Slowly peeling away the layers of politeness reveals the passions and stories within us—the occasional nervous laughter, slight pauses, and moments of tension rising and falling. You become friends, learn about each other’s flaws and challenges, and discover life together, growing gradually.
That’s how dating used to be all the time.
But things have changed.
We’ve started treating dating like a shopping experience—picking and choosing based on trending attributes: hot, tall, ambitious, rich, and kind.
“All my problems will end when I meet The One. Where’s that perfect product human for me?”
Social media, and sometimes even our friends, reinforce this idea.
Now it feels like a chore. It’s become a process of endless swiping and searching. Meeting people feels like a waste of time when they don’t tick off all the boxes on my checklist (influenced by dating reality shows). Dates turn into interviews, and judgment breeds frustration.
Every relationship we eventually develop turns unhealthy quickly when challenges arise.
Yet, meeting new people and building a great relationship is a wonder. We develop new identities, share treasured moments, appreciate one another’s strengths, evolve ourselves and our partner, overcome hardships, create new milestones, enjoy great health, and rediscover the meaning of our lives.
It’s fundamental to our existence.
The good news? The magic is still there. It’s just buried under a mess of poor perspectives and online clutter—some from the people around us, some from dating companies, and much of it from social media and modern dating culture.
Modern dating needs a refresh.
With Kopi Date, we’ve done just that. It’s a redo, a rethink, a simplified, potent reintroduction to dating—healthily.
We’re bringing dating back to the fundamentals—starting from within, in real life, as humans first.
Our program shortcuts your path to a healthy, long-term relationship as you meet curated individuals with shared values and common goals.
Equipped with the best perspectives, skills, and introspection, dating becomes enjoyable and rewarding.
Your grandma would be proud of you for enrolling in this.
Kopi Date is our love letter to the world of healthy relationships.
Sign up now to get started.
Love,
Zhiqun
OUR MISSION
Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life. At Kopi Date, we believe in the importance of cultivating resilient relationships, starting with the dating process. Our focus on personal growth and fostering meaningful connections ensures that our members have the tools and resources they need to create long-term, fulfilling relationships.
Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth and introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.
We believe that dating is an opportunity to explore and learn about ourselves while connecting with others. Through celebrating individualities and fostering personal growth, we empower our members to become the best versions of themselves and to attract partners who appreciate and cherish them for who they are.
Here at Kopi Date, we are dedicated to designing thoughtfully-curated date experiences in the most humanised setting possible. We are committed to empowering singles to create intentional and fulfilling first date experiences that pave the way for grounded, successful relationships.
Learn more: The Kopi Date Thesis 🪄
HOW WE 🪄CURATE DATES
Warm, slow brew over meaningful exchanges. Getting lost in conversation. The art of finding yourself—in getting to know someone new. Every Kopi Date is thoughtfully-curated, an experience designed for simple, genuine connections in person.
Our approach is simple.
At Kopi Date, we celebrate you–what makes you human and unique. We learn more about your you and your story and curate the most amazing first date with great conversations as an end goal in mind.
So while your Kopi Dates are a potential for something life-changing to bloom, we hope it will also spark new conversations, your path of learning and self-discovery, and lead to new adventures.
OUR 🗝️ PROMISE
TO YOU
Let's keep it real for a moment. We're far from being a flawless company. But, we genuinely care. Instead of getting swayed by fancy words crafted to jazz up this website, we urge you to look at our deeds—the real steps we're taking for the betterment of humanity.
At our heart, people come before profits. We're in this to offer a space where individuals can discover profound bonds, uncover insights about themselves and peers, and foster enduring, enriching relationships.
As we work to craft the ultimate first date experience, we're always on the lookout for fresh ideas to elevate our platform. Got suggestions? We're all ears.
At Kopi Date,
82% of members
indicate they are open to go on second dates
Our commitment to
Long-Term Fulfilling Relationships
At Kopi Date, our commitment is firmly rooted in progression.
We're more than a dating service; we're a growth-driven community. Our mission is to not only initiate memorable first dates but also foster their evolution into successful second, third dates and beyond.
We see every subsequent date as an opportunity to deepen connections and foster a healthy, successful relationship.
FREE! Healthy Dating Guide
Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life.
Our Healthy Dating Guide is designed to help singles date healthily and build long-term, fulfilling relationships.
