Dating is broken.

From the swipe culture that turns people into commodities, to endless ghosting and the paradox of choice that keeps us in a loop of surface-level connections—modern dating isn’t designed for healthy relationships.

And it’s clear that existing dating platforms aren’t working.

Apps profit from endless swiping, not from people finding meaningful relationships. Algorithms prioritise engagement, not human connections. And as a result:

  • 44% of singles feel burnt out from dating

  • The average dating app user spends 90 minutes a day swiping

  • More than half of online daters never make it to a first date

  • Superficial connections make it harder to form real ones

  • The skills needed for a healthy relationship aren’t taught anywhere

 

So we built Kopi Date

The most intentional way to meet like-minded singles—rooted in growth, introspection, and meaningful connection.

We create experiences that help you meet people in a way that’s actually healthy. No algorithms. No endless swiping. Just real, human-first dating.

We believe dating should be intentional, growth-focused, and fuss-free—designed to help you gain clarity on what truly matters in a partner and build the relationship skills to sustain something real.

If modern dating were built today, it would look completely different.
Real conversations. Real skills. Real connections.

As the world demands more of us, we must demand more for ourselves.

We believe dating should be less about algorithms and more about understanding yourself and others—so that when you do meet someone, you know exactly what you’re looking for and how to build something real.

The future of dating isn’t mindless swiping. It’s about meeting the right people with the right mindset—and creating the shortest path to a healthy relationship.

The most complete
dating platform

Because dating is more than just meeting people.

From amazing first dates to engaging in self-reflections, receiving actionable insights through personalised feedback and more.

The beauty of a first date lies in anticipation, uncertainty, and the sense of boundless possibilities. Through discovering someone, there is the potential for so much more. 

In an age of instant but often lackluster gratification, don’t we miss the moments of wonder and hope? Don’t we crave the feeling of being part of something meaningful?

In today’s fast-paced and digitally-driven world, many of us find ourselves forgetting and forsaking organic human connections. But what happens when the hype and novelty wears off? Do we want more than a painted image and superficial niceties?

Let’s preserve that tingling, fluttering feeling called longing. Let’s once again revel in the beauty of a first date. Let’s connect with those that we meet, not by swiping or following them, but by discovering them as authentic individuals.

Connection & conversation; this is the Kopi Date experience.