The Conversation-Centred Methodology

Here at Kopi Date, we believe that conversation-centred dating is an approach that can help you form meaningful and lasting relationships, all while learning more about yourself.

Dating is undoubtedly a social activity, but it should not be causing you to sweat, get all jittery, or raise alarm bells in your head. Instead, let Kopi Date show you that dating can be casual, fun and on top of all that - an enriching human process. 

Of course it’s not all butterflies and rainbows. Dating can also be an emotional rollercoaster, with many highs and lows. But we believe that it can still prove to be a fulfilling journey, if you let it be!

The Three Domains of Conversation-Based Dating

As such, this method of conversation-centered dating can touch three areas in your life:

1. Individuality
Celebrate yourself and your uniqueness! 

Firstly, get to know yourself and celebrate your unique identity. Every single one of us has our own stories, and these experiences have given us our own set of characteristics. Be it the books we read, the people we adore and admire, family upbringings or challenges we face. These have shaped our perspective of the world, values and ultimately our identity - there is no one out there quite like us! By recognising who we are and owning it, we remain authentic. At Kopi Date, we believe that staying true to ourselves and others draws us towards others who share similar values as us.

2. Sociability
Learn to be great company and have fun doing so!

We’re all no stranger to the fact that humans are social creatures. That’s why sharing experiences with other people can help us feel fulfilled. Understanding what makes someone good company or a great conversationalist is the key. Through things like self-awareness, open-mindness, social-confidence, authenticity and empathy, we’re able to express our individuality while reaching out to others.

Kopi Date aims to help you find out that coming to possess such qualities, connecting with others can be a form of play, banter, getting to know one another meaningfully and even intimately. Social interactions should be fun and can be casual - so enjoy the process!e believe that every single one of us has our own set of characteristics based on the permutations of our own past experiences, unique to us. Be it the books we read, the people whom we admire, our family upbringing or the challenges that we have faced - these experiences shape our own perspectives of the world, our values and our identity. Recognise who you are, own it and celebrate it.

3. Attraction
Share your feelings and observations proactively and creatively!

The word “attraction” may make you squirm - if you associate it with things like superficiality, physical appearances and sexual attraction. Here at Kopi Date, we want to help you understand that attraction can stem from authenticity. Through drawing the right person who aligns with your individuality through your conversations and sociability, establish an innate form of trust between the two of you. This will allow you both to explore more, take a step further and closer; like a beautifully coordinated tango!