The Conversation-Centred Methodology

Individuality -> Sociability -> Attraction (Methology)

Conversation-centred dating is an approach to meet new people and form meaningful, lasting relationships while also learning more about yourself.

Dating is a social activity. It need not be nervy, stressful or pressurising. At Kopi Date we believe that dating should be casual, fun and enriching human process for all.

We don’t promise all butterflies and rainbows. Dating can be an emotional rollercoaster with lots of highs and lows. But we believe that it can be a fulfilling journey if you let it be.

The conversation-centred dating methodology can be applied in three ways:

1. Individuality: celebrating yourself and your own uniqueness; authenticity draws you towards others that shares similar values as you

2. Sociability: learning how to be a great conversationalist, taking things easy, have fun and be a great company

3. Attraction: proactively and confidently share your feelings and observations

Authenticity, Self-awareness, Interpersonal relationship (outter rings)

The Kopi Date user journey is designed with this approach in mind. We celebrate our members’ individuality through our Kopi Date Brew, an intimate conversation that uncovers our members’ unique identity. Members will go on Kopi Date Adventures where they’ll meet fascinating personalities, create fond memories and build strong connections, expressing their sociability. Our self-designed experience kits help to craft out the best environment for fun interactions and intimate conversations, surfacing opportunities for connection and attraction.

Kopi Date is also designed for personal growth. Our curriculum and reviews help you to not only learn more about yourself and gain self-awareness but also a new perspective towards social wellness and attraction. Our curriculum is by social psychologists, instructional designers and even contributed by pick-up artists ;).

Individuality -> Sociability -> Attraction

Kopi Date Brew -> Date Day Adventures/ Curation -> Experience kit

Personal growth curriculum and date-reviews (for the whole journey)

Individuality:
The idea of getting to know yourself better and celebrate your unique identity. We believe that every single one of us has our own set of characteristics based on the permutations of our own past experiences, unique to us. Be it the books we read, the people whom we admire, our family upbringing or the challenges that we have faced - these experiences shape our own perspectives of the world, our values and our identity. Recognise who you are, own it and celebrate it.

Sociability:
Humans are social creatures. Sharing experiences with others make us feel more fulfilled. Understanding the core of what makes we a great company or a great conversationalist is an important skillset. Through concepts such as empathy, open-mindedness, self-awareness, social-confidence and authenticity, we’ll be able to express our individuality through a form of play. Social interactions should be fun and casual. Enjoy it.

Attraction:
Attraction sounds like a dirty word from the lens of superficiality, deception or manipulation. Our approach to attraction stems from authenticity and through drawing the right people that aligns with your individuality through sociability and conversation and establish an innate form of trust that allows both parties to explore more, take a step further; and dance.

What is Social Well-being?

Social well-being is a psychological concept adopted by Kopi Date to illustrate the state of mind that individuals can gain through focusing on authenticity and meaningful conversations.

Kopi Date’s mission is to humanise connections and empower social well-being across the globe.

We believe that dating plays a huge part of social well-being especially for singles. Instead of a means to an end, treat it as a self-discovery journey while you express your authenticity, making it a more human, more fulfilling process.

Make friends. Long-lasting, or transient. Lovers. Ex-lovers. The ones that are not good for you. Even the ones you’re undeserving. Embrace the ups and downs, the full spectrum of emotions; anxiety, excitement, disappointment, euphoria, uncertainty, butterflies in your stomach. Take all of them in and let it be part of you as you march on.

This is your adventure, we’re here with you to make it a fulfilling one.

What is Conversation-Centred dating?

Individuality -> Sociability -> Attraction (Methology)

Conversation-centred dating is an approach to meet new people and form meaningful, lasting relationships while also learning more about yourself.

Dating is a social activity. It need not be nervy, stressful or pressurising. At Kopi Date we believe that dating should be casual, fun and enriching human process for all.

We don’t promise all butterflies and rainbows. Dating can be an emotional rollercoaster with lots of highs and lows. But we believe that it can be a fulfilling journey if you let it be.

The conversation-centred dating methodology can be applied in three ways:

1. Individuality: celebrating yourself and your own uniqueness; authenticity draws you towards others that shares similar values as you

2. Sociability: learning how to be a great conversationalist, taking things easy, have fun and be a great company

3. Attraction: proactively and confidently share your feelings and observations

Authenticity, Self-awareness, Interpersonal relationship (outter rings)

The Kopi Date user journey is designed with this approach in mind. We celebrate our members’ individuality through our Kopi Date Brew, an intimate conversation that uncovers our members’ unique identity. Members will go on Kopi Date Adventures where they’ll meet fascinating personalities, create fond memories and build strong connections, expressing their sociability. Our self-designed experience kits help to craft out the best environment for fun interactions and intimate conversations, surfacing opportunities for connection and attraction.

Kopi Date is also designed for personal growth. Our curriculum and reviews help you to not only learn more about yourself and gain self-awareness but also a new perspective towards social wellness and attraction. Our curriculum is by social psychologists, instructional designers and even contributed by pick-up artists ;).

Individuality -> Sociability -> Attraction

Kopi Date Brew -> Date Day Adventures/ Curation -> Experience kit

Personal growth curriculum and date-reviews (for the whole journey)

Individuality:
The idea of getting to know yourself better and celebrate your unique identity. We believe that every single one of us has our own set of characteristics based on the permutations of our own past experiences, unique to us. Be it the books we read, the people whom we admire, our family upbringing or the challenges that we have faced - these experiences shape our own perspectives of the world, our values and our identity. Recognise who you are, own it and celebrate it.

Sociability:
Humans are social creatures. Sharing experiences with others make us feel more fulfilled. Understanding the core of what makes we a great company or a great conversationalist is an important skillset. Through concepts such as empathy, open-mindedness, self-awareness, social-confidence and authenticity, we’ll be able to express our individuality through a form of play. Social interactions should be fun and casual. Enjoy it.

Attraction:
Attraction sounds like a dirty word from the lens of superficiality, deception or manipulation. Our approach to attraction stems from authenticity and through drawing the right people that aligns with your individuality through sociability and conversation and establish an innate form of trust that allows both parties to explore more, take a step further; and dance.

What is Social Well-being?

Social well-being is a psychological concept adopted by Kopi Date to illustrate the state of mind that individuals can gain through focusing on authenticity and meaningful conversations.

Kopi Date’s mission is to humanise connections and empower social well-being across the globe.

We believe that dating plays a huge part of social well-being especially for singles. Instead of a means to an end, treat it as a self-discovery journey while you express your authenticity, making it a more human, more fulfilling process.

Make friends. Long-lasting, or transient. Lovers. Ex-lovers. The ones that are not good for you. Even the ones you’re undeserving. Embrace the ups and downs, the full spectrum of emotions; anxiety, excitement, disappointment, euphoria, uncertainty, butterflies in your stomach. Take all of them in and let it be part of you as you march on.

This is your adventure, we’re here with you to make it a fulfilling one.