An intention, a wish, a way of life, Kopi Date is a community of fascinating individuals and thoughtful experiences that reframe the way we date and interact.

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RETHINKING DATING

In times of great haste, we dare to be slow. Not a mere shift in velocity but an altered state of being. We break cycles of distraction and destruction, opening deep chasms of reflection and space for energetic insight. Kopi Date defies conventions, embracing the endless possibilities of life-changing outcomes.

Kopi Date has been quietly unfolding since the creation in 2018 of a social experiment.

Drawing on the insights of the slow movement, Kopi Date takes a localised, conscientious approach to every element in the Kopi Date Experience, from our curated community to the curation of our dates and the designing of date experiences to model a more intentional approach to dating.

Kopi Date provides an uncomplicated journey, with just one-third the steps of a dating app.
Get inspired by psychology-backed personal growth content through our membership program.
Dating has always been impulse-driven. We empower our members to approach dating intentionally.

We yearn for an older, slower way of moving through the world. Yet we look toward the future, to new technologies and design methods, to novel ideas and audacious dreams.

10,000+

interesting individuals

30,000+

Kopi Dates curated and counting

4.8

rating on Google Reviews

How it works

The Kopi Date Experience

Join our curated community

Fill in the application form to begin your Kopi Date adventure. Join our thoughtfully-curated community, made up with incredible people who value meaningful connections, and seek great conversations.

We get to know you

Hop on a casual chat with us to as we get to know you and find out what makes you unique. It’s like a mini-documentary where we celebrate your individuality!

We thoughtfully curate a date for you

We curate the most amazing first date with great conversations and connection as an end goal in mind.

We organise everything

We partner with centrally-located cafe experiences you'll love. Plus you'll get an Experience Kit for thought-provoking questions to ask and a special itinerary planned so you have everything you need for your a great first date.

A personalised experience

Enjoyed the date? Let us know as we take into consideration of your feedback from your post-date review for a more personalised experience your upcoming adventures!

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Your shortcut to
better dates

Not a dating app. Not a matchmaking agency.

"I mean - WOW! I’m surprised how simple it is to get connected with interesting people. They do everything for you, you just have to show up and enjoy! KD is the best social membership ever."

Audrey W.
Project Manager

“The dating apps, bio-datas & shady dot coms were not for me! I’ve been on a couple of dates, and everything - from the onboarding session, ease of date coordination, and most importantly to the person sitting across me, has been a great experience!”

Min Yi G.,
Graphic Designer

“Kopi Date is a safe and comfortable way to meet new people. It’s a unique opportunity to connect with someone new.”

Christian G.
Software Engineer

“My date was a great conversationalist and he was very open to share his experience and opinions! There weren’t any awkward silences. The community is discerning and well-curated.”

Nicolette T.
Data Analyst

A social membership.
Endless great conversations.

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☆☆☆☆☆ Loved by 30,000+ members

Our curious, bold and diverse community of incredible people have a confident approach to life. They value meaningful connections, and are looking for great conversations.

Curated
community

Simple

No fake profiles. No endless swiping. Your personal details and picture are never shared with other members before your date, where you decide how much you'd like share.

Pressure-free

The idea is to be yourself and get to know your date in an authentic setting. You can exchange numbers if you like, date for months, or simply move on to your next date. You're in control.

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FAQs

Kopi Date was founded on the idea of change. Our idea is to humanise connections in an overly digitised world. We want to create the most authentic offline dating experience for singles.
It’s simple!
1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.
2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.
3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.
4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!
5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕
It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!
Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (30% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).
6-credits (18% off) and 3-credits are available without above perks.
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