Dating for
Healthy, grounded relationships
Achieve a healthy, successful, grounded relationship in just 6 months*
Modern dating is broken.
You go on date after date, but each one often ends in disappointment; it feels like you're running in circles, leaving you right where you started.
This is because
80% of singles focus solely on meeting people, nothing else.
Mid to low chance of success.
Potential cycle of self-victimisation, fixed-minded,
idea of finding the ‘ideal’ one without self-improvement.
15% of singles meet others and are introspective about themselves.
Higher chance of success.
More self-awareness, possess growth mindset. Struggle with dating/relationship challenges (ghosting, lifestyle differences, rejections, conflicts).
Remaining 5%: Meet new people, are introspective, and invest in developing relationship skills.
The highest chance of getting into healthy, successful relationships.
Resilient, emotionally mature, able to deal with relationship challenges, and often attract other amazing folks.
We empower singles to become one of the Top 5% in Singapore that builds healthy, successful relationships.
Notice the Kopi Date difference
Disconnected and overwhelmed
Frustrated with dating apps
Boring, unfulfilling dates
✓ Energised and connected
✓ Clear, meaningful connections
✓ Exciting, purposeful dates
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KOPI DATE
empowers you to:
Meet amazing people, healthily;
authenticity through introspection
(& be attractive)
building Relationship Skills (for great rls)
with
while
Introducing:
Stress-free Social Exploration System…
Saving you thousands of dollars a year from traditional matchmaking agencies and 30 hours each week from the frustrations of dating apps.
1. 1-on-1 onboarding where we map out your personalised roadmap to great relationships.
2. Immediate level-up: Step-by-step dating clarity blueprint.
3. Meet like-minded people, with similar motivations (powered by our: 30,000 dates, Healthy-relationship curation model).
4. Date at your most convenient day/time (Designed for the busiest of individuals).
5. Seamless scheduling/rescheduling system.
6. Never-another-boring-date pack: Date-day experience kit, inspiring meaningful conversations.
7. Access to internal community case studies and successes.
8. Conclude-with-clarity system: End each date with a clear understanding of one another.
9. 1-on-1 post-date feedback to personalise experience.
10. Date-day WhatsApp concierge for full support and safety.
Bonus 1: Unlock New System: The “Every Date a New Adventure” dating system that quietly incorporates dating into your lifestyle and personal growth.
(Unbeatable system making even the most anti-daters look forward to each date.)
Bonus 2: Second Date Clarity.
Alternative:
Kopi Date Empowers you to:
1. Meet amazing people, healthily;
2. Be introspective (& attractive)
3. Build relationship skills (for great rls)
Introducing:
Irresistible Introspection
Be clear
1. 1-on-1 onboarding where we map out your personalized roadmap.
2. Immediate level-up: Step-by-step dating blueprint.
3. Meet like-minded people, with similar motivations (powered by our: 30,000 dates, Healthy-relationship curation model).
4. Date at your most convenient day/time (Designed for the busiest of individuals).
5. Seamless scheduling/rescheduling system, never waste time.
6. Never-another-boring-date pack: Date-day experience kit, inspiring meaningful conversations.
7. Conclude-with-clarity system: End each date with a clear understanding.
8. 1-on-1 post-date feedback to personalize experience.
Bonus 1: Unlock New System: The “Every Date a New Adventure” dating system that quietly makes you ‘level up’ with every date.
(Unbeatable system that makes even the most anti-daters look forward to each date.)
Bonus 2: Second Date Clarity.
Don’t settle for average relationships.
Approximately 80% of singles are primarily focused on meeting new people. Many find themselves confused and unsure about how to advance in their relationships, often feeling lost in an ongoing cycle.
About 15% of singles take an introspective approach, seeking a deeper understanding of themselves. These individuals are clear and composed about their identity and how they express their uniqueness, yet they still encounter typical dating challenges.
The Top 5% are proactive about enhancing their relationship skills, positioning themselves for success in forming healthy, enduring relationships. They exhibit exceptional clarity and are well-prepared to manage dating and relationship difficulties. Attributes like resilience, empathy, effective communication, emotional maturity, and a growth mindset define this group.
At Kopi Date, we're committed to elevating you to the Top 5% of intentional daters in Singapore. Let us guide you in building a healthy, fulfilling relationship through our unique, growth-focused dating approach.
Achieve a healthy and successful relationship in 6 months!
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Signs you’re caught in the dating grind
Feeling drained?
Does meeting new people often feel like too much work? The emotional investment required might seem overwhelming when weighed against the uncertain outcomes.
Feeling stuck in a cycle?
If every new date feels like a replay of the last, with no real progress, you might be stuck in the exhausting cycle of the modern dating grind.
Missing out on second dates?
Feeling frustrated by the lack of follow-up? If second dates seem elusive, it might be a cue that the initial connections aren't hitting the right note.
Overwhelmed by pressure & judgments?
Facing intense scrutiny and high expectations in new encounters can be overwhelming. The constant need to prove yourself turns dating into a high-stakes audition, not a chance for genuine connection.
Strapped for time?
If the phrase "I don’t have time to meet new people" resonates with you, it’s a sign that the conventional ways of dating are not fitting well with your busy lifestyle.
Afraid of being ghosted?
The fear of being left without a word or an explanation can make entering the dating scene even more stressful and emotionally taxing.
Find joy in dating!
Superficiality and misrepresentation
Cut through fake profiles and unrealistic portrayals to reveal true personalities.
Overwhelm and choice paralysis
Our thoughtfully-curated dates prioritises quality over quantity, making dating decisions clearer and more meaningful.
Ghosting and lack of closure
Experience continuity with our post-date features, ensuring you move confidently to second dates and beyond.
Harassment and safety concerns
Enjoy peace of mind in our 100% curated community, where every member is personally onboarded, ensuring a safe dating environment.
Time consumption
Reclaim your time with efficient curation and focus on personal learning and growth, transforming dating from a chore into a rewarding journey.
Subscription and financial costs
From $45/credit, it includes enjoy complimentary beverage, Experience Kit, concierge and logistics.
Mismatched intentions
Align on intentions from the start, fostering healthy, successful relationships through intentional dating.
Burnout
Avoid dating app fatigue with features that encourage breaks and mindfulness.
Privacy concerns
Protect your data with top-tier privacy policies and transparent practices.
What you're about to experience
Xin Yi & Alex
Vicknesh & Priya
Wei Hun
Eleanor
Kai Yi & Kai Xiang
Your accelerated path to
successful relationships
It starts with you.
You are in control. The essence of successful dating lies in fostering the right “tools” through introspection and self-awareness.
Break the cycle.
Explore meaningful connections with like-minded people through curated dating experiences. Less mind games, more genuine connections.
Forge the now,
forge the future
Gain from post-date feedback, personalised advice, and individual Bar Chat sessions.
A hassle-free experience for working professionals
Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people. Leave the work to us and take swiping off your to-do list 🚀
Celebrating individuality
We celebrate what makes you, you! We’ll use this information to help curate the best dates for you.
A curated community
Every member is curated, screened and personally onboarded to ensure the best fit for our community.
Focus on great conversations
Our experiences are designed to enable meaningful connection through conversation.
Affordable
Explore new cafes and meet new people without breaking the bank.
Save >10 hours a week on dating apps
Say goodbye to fake profiles, endless swiping & meaningless texting.
Authenticity & intention
Our members value genuine connection over superficial exchanges.
A guided journey
We’re available on WhatsApp and email for any membership or date enquiries.
Simplicity and mindfulness
A casual setting that prioritises enjoyable journey over rigid destination.
Personal Growth
Receive monthly personal growth content to learn more about yourself.
How it works
The Kopi Date Experience
Join our curated community
Fill in the application form to begin your Kopi Date adventure. Join our thoughtfully-curated community, made up with incredible people who value meaningful connections, and seek great conversations.
We get to know you
Hop on a casual chat with us to as we get to know you and find out what makes you unique. It’s like a mini-documentary where we celebrate your individuality!
We thoughtfully curate a date for you
We curate the most amazing first date with great conversations and connection as an end goal in mind.
We organise everything
We partner with centrally-located cafe experiences you'll love. Plus you'll get an Experience Kit for thought-provoking questions to ask and a special itinerary planned so you have everything you need for your a great first date.
A personalised experience
Enjoyed the date? Let us know as we take into consideration of your feedback from your post-date review for a more personalised experience your upcoming adventures!
Personalised Feedback
Gain actionable insights from your past Kopi Dates. Recognise your strengths and identify your blind spots. Join us for a Bar Chat* to track your progress and offer ongoing support.
*Bar Chat is a casual way for our Delight Team to provide you with useful tips and feedback while also lending a listening ear to your experiences. We recently launched a Bar Chat for all new members at Kopi Date after their first Kopi Date Experience. We are also extending it to all current members too!
Its time to start meeting new people
Begin your dating experience…
Kopi Date empowers members to meet new people through casual coffee dates in an exciting and authentic way. It’s never been easier to expand your social circle and have great conversations.
If you’re looking for something authentic, Kopi Date is the casual coffee date experience for singles.
Growth-minded, curious people
Who is Kopi Date for?
If you’re a growth-minded person looking to enjoy having great conversations and meet new people, Kopi Date is for you. We’re creating a community of liberated individuals looking to have genuine connections.
A safe space to meet new people
A safe environment
Kopi Date promotes a positive and safe environment for everyone to enjoy. Enjoy thoughtfully-curated coffee dates at our unique partner spaces.
Not a dating app.
Not a matchmaking agency.
Kopi Date is a conversation-centred first date experience for singles. Since 2018, we brought over 10,000 incredible people together on coffee dates.
2 cities Available in Singapore & Sydney
30,000+ curated Kopi Dates
4.8 ⭐️ Google Reviews ratings
Your shortcut
to better dates
Join our growing community of social adventurers who have made over 22,832 real connections through Kopi Date.
“I mean - WOW! I’m surprised how simple it is to get connected with interesting people. They do everything for you, you just have to show up and enjoy! KD is the best social membership ever."
Audrey W.
Project Manager
“The dating apps, bio-datas & shady dot coms were not for me! I’ve been on a couple of dates, and everything - from the onboarding session, ease of date coordination, and most importantly to the person sitting across me, has been a great experience!”
Min Yi G.,
Graphic Designer
“Kopi Date is a safe and comfortable way to meet new people. It’s a unique opportunity to connect with someone new.”
Christian G.
Software Engineer
“My date was a great conversationalist and he was very open to share his experience and opinions! There weren’t any awkward silences. The community is discerning and well-curated.”
Nicolette T.
Data Analyst
The people you may meet
‡ A UX consultant with an interest in hiking and hosting awesome dinner parties
‡ A teacher with a deep-seated passion for sustainability and social change
‡ An entrepreneur, lover of IPA beers and fiction novels
‡ A fresh Communications graduate who loves solo travelling and sci-fi films
A social membership.
Endless great conversations.
Enjoy 30% OFF (Limited time offer ⏰)
From Ladies $45/credit | Gentlemen $50/ credit
U.P $65 Ladies / $70 Gentlemen
☆☆☆☆☆ Loved by 10,000+ members
Our curious, bold and diverse community of incredible people have a confident approach to life. They value meaningful connections, and are looking for great conversations.
Curated
community
Simple
No fake profiles. No endless swiping. Your personal details and picture are never shared with other members before your date, where you decide how much you'd like share.
Pressure-free
The idea is to be yourself and get to know your date in an authentic setting. You can exchange numbers if you like, date for months, or simply move on to your next date. You're in control.
FAQs
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Kopi Date was founded on the idea of change. Our idea is to humanise connections in an overly digitised world. We want to create the most authentic offline dating experience for singles; a foundation for meaningful long-term fulfilling relationships.
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Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. If you're someone who values open-mindedness, personal growth, and building genuine connections, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date.
We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.
Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.
So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.
Learn more about Who is Kopi Date For?
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It’s simple!
1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.
2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.
3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.
4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!
5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕
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Yes, Kopi Date is a paid service. Our mission to help our members succeed in relationships and our paid service ensures no compromises on quality- that people who join us are looking for the same thing too!
The membership starts from $45/credit (Ladies) and $50/credit (Gentlemen).
It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!
Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (30% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).
6-credits (15% off) and 3-credits are available without above perks.
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At Kopi Date, we encourage our community to embark on their dates with an open mind and a great setting to have wonderful conversations. Tossing your checklist can help you open up to meeting people with characteristics that you might surprisingly vibe with - and qualities that can inspire long-term relationships such as loyalty, kindness, emotional stability, good communication and a growth mindset!
Kopi Date encourages members to approach each date with an open mind. After all, connections often develop in places we don’t expect.
Having said that, we do take into account your comments during the ‘Concluding-the-Date Review' to create a more personalised experience (it’ll be a great place to let us know on how you can have better experiences). However, please reach out to us if you have any absolute limits!
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