Member Spotlight feat. K.Y.
K.Y.
Social Worker
Lighthearted.Spontaneous.Selective Nerd.
I'm someone who thrives on laughter and the joy it brings.
Engaging in enlightening conversations about people's unique worldviews is something I always look forward to. I have a deep passion for musicals and music, appreciating the rhythmic melodies and storytelling they offer.
The great outdoors is my sanctuary. The call of nature, the thrill of new adventures - it all resonates with my spirit. I've been labeled a “selective nerd”, courtesy of my love for Marvel movies, DC TV series (like ‘Flash'), and crime dramas such as ‘CSI', ‘Mentalist', and ‘Hawaii-5-O'. I can be a bit random at times, adding a delightful touch of unpredictability to my persona.
Bubble Tea holds a special place in my heart as my go-to beverage, while “jelat” foods like cheese, mentaiko, and anything too spicy are a firm no-go for me. I value simplicity and practicality above all, seeking straightforward solutions and approaches in all aspects of my life. I'm drawn to wide, open spaces where tranquility and inspiration dwell in abundance.
A committed social worker, K.Y. found purpose in her role at a homeless shelter, a path she'd been drawn to since her university days. Her life took a transformative turn when she embarked on a series of travels, first exploring Indonesia's culture and terrain, and later soaking in the snow-laden beauty of New Zealand. These experiences ignited her passion for hiking and exploring diverse landscapes.
In her free time, K.Y. enjoys a variety of pursuits ranging from bouldering to kayaking, but none has captivated her quite like hiking. If retirement were an option today, she would immediately set off on a global adventure with her family. Her dream is to embrace the distinct beauty, culture, and people each country offers, while continuing to aid those in need—a true embodiment of a global citizen.
Have you ever considered solo travel?
While I've been hearing people suggest solo travel, I feel the joy of experiencing new places is amplified when shared with another person. It’s about the connection, the memories we made throughout the trip.
Sharing those special times with my beloved ones adds a whole new dimension of joy to the adventure. The happiness just seems to multiply, and those moments become incredibly priceless.
How fascinating! And how do these adventures influence your personal growth and self-discovery?
Travel isn't just about the visual delight of nature; it's a journey of cultural immersion and personal evolution. Every adventure becomes a chance to discover new things, nurture my skills, and learn so much along the way. Even spontaneous trips can teach me important lessons about adaptability and resilience. Sometimes, it can be a bit exhausting and painful the next day, but those are all invaluable lessons that I'll cherish forever. They've shaped me in ways I won't ever take for granted.
If you were to encapsulate your Kopi Date experience in a single sentence, what would it be?
Embark on the Kopi Date journey; you never know who delightful encounters await you!
Your diverse and purposeful travel experiences are truly inspiring. Now, carrying this theme of intentionality forward, let's shift our focus towards your personal life. Would you say that you approach your relationships in a similar manner—mindfully and with clear intent, much like the careful thought and purpose you put into each of your adventures?
Absolutely! Prior to joining Kopi Date, I thought about this a lot. I questioned whether I should just enjoy life solo or take a leap of faith in search of a potential partner. I must admit, dating apps seemed like a time-consuming and effort-intensive venture. Given my already packed routine and exhausting schedule, I was unsure if I could keep up with all that.
With Kopi Date, the process feels more natural, and I get to explore at my own pace. It's not rushed, and that's a relief! The thoughtfully-curated dates and the way everything is handled here brought an incredible sense of ease to my mind.
Now, as I interact with different people, it's not just about getting to know them; it's also about discovering what truly matters to me in a potential partner. It's like a journey of self-reflection that goes hand in hand with meeting new faces.
Kopi Date: You've expressed a deep love for travel. Can you share a travel experience that was particularly memorable for you?
Hmm, honestly I can’t choose one! There’s no one that’s better than the other. Every journey I've taken has presented its own unique experiences. The allure of each adventure, whether it's a family trip or a mountain hike abroad, is distinct! If you decide to travel for different reasons, you’ll receive different rewards.
Reflecting on the Kopi Date, do you believe there is potential for a second date or further exploration of the connection?
Absolutely, I'd be open to a second date. After all, the first meeting merely scratches the surface, offering a glimpse into the other person's world.
I believe there's much more to discover and understand.
What factors contribute to your decision? What makes you decide whether you would want to go on a second date with someone else?
Beyond the spark of initial connection, I also take into account the life stages of both individuals. Evaluating if a second date is practically viable, considering our respective points in life, is essential. The beauty of dating is that with each experience, we unveil more layers of our character and aspirations.
Thus, I weigh if pursuing a second date would resonate with my personal goals and guide me closer to the relationship I envision.
Reflecting on your encounters through Kopi Date, what key insights or revelations have emerged?
Each date is akin to an intriguing chapter in a novel, each bearing its own unique narrative and direction. The process of immersing myself in the rich tapestry of conversations and experiences each person brings is truly enlightening. Observing the ebb and flow of interaction that differs with each individual is an incredible experience.
These conversations have become mirrors that reflect back important insights about myself. I've discovered things like, “Hmm, I need to work on this" or “Yes, I definitely prefer that.” It's like a mirror that helps me see my progress as I strive to be a better version of myself.
And what, in your opinion, are the foundational qualities for a long-term, fulfilling relationship?
It's all about maintaining a delicate balance. We all have our preferences, but adhering too strictly might lead us to solitude. Over time, I've come to understand that shared beliefs and values greatly impact my lifestyle, influencing how I deal with life's twists and turns, communicate, and uphold my priorities. These shared principles act as a common language between partners.
Alongside this, I place immense value on a good sense of humour and an attentive eye for details—qualities that, in my opinion, significantly enhance a relationship.
What do you appreciate most about Kopi Date?
What I truly admire about Kopi Date is their exceptional service and their attentive response to member feedback. It's evident that they value our voices and experiences, creating a service that is genuinely tailored to meet the needs of its members.
Their thoughtful selection of date locations further enhances the overall experience, affirming their commitment to ensuring delightful encounters for everyone involved.